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THE WARNING SIGNS WERE THERE...

The shocking reality of how abusers groom young people is the focus of our new campaign.

The hard hitting animation below, follows the story of a young girl, it shows how those around her, her teacher, her friend and her dad, notice changes in her behaviour.

 

It then turns to the abuser who describes how he grooms her with gifts, alcohol and affection before abusing her, adding ‘the warning signs were there.’

Parents, teachers and young people are being encouraged to watch the animation, know the warning signs and help us stop perpetrators in their tracks.

GAMING WITH AJ...

The frightening reality of a how abusers can target and groom through online gaming is the focus of a new campaign.

The hard hitting film from the regional see me, hear me partnership focuses on the warning signs of this hidden crime.

 

Called ‘Gaming with AJ – the warning signs were there’, it follows the story of fictional gaming vlogger AJ, who’s targeted by an abuser.

 

The perpetrator grooms him online with gaming tips and free gifts to gain AJ’s trust before abusing him.

WHAT IS CHILD SEXUAL EXPLOITATION?

Sexual exploitation is a crime, it’s when someone forces you to do something sexual in return for some kind of payment, such as drugs, gifts or affection.

 

It may be someone you consider to be a boyfriend or girlfriend. It could be someone you’ve just met or a group of new friends you’re now hanging out with. It could also be someone you’ve met online.

 

THEY MAY:

  • force you to have sex with them or other people

  • make you do something sexual to them or other people

  • touch you in a way that makes you feel uncomfortable

  • show you sexual images or ask you to take sexual photos of yourself or share them online or by text

  • make you watch them do something sexual

 

IN RETURN THEY MAY:

  • buy you gifts or give you money

  • give you lots of attention and make you feel special

  • tell you they love you

  • take you out

  • give you drugs or alcohol

  • give you somewhere to stay

  • hurt or threaten  you or make you feel guilty or like you owe them something

 

SIGNS TO LOOK OUT FOR:

  • changes in their behaviour  –they might become more confident and outgoing, or more shy and quiet

  • changes in their appearance –they may start dressing differently, or wearing lots of make up

  • having sexual relationships which worry you or which you think are not safe

  • spending time with new friends who may be older or seem to be ‘using’ your friend

  • an older boyfriend or girlfriend

  • staying out late, not going home or missing school

  • having new things without any explanation or which they say were gifts from a friend or boyfriend/ girlfriend. These may include mobile phones, clothes, jewellery or drugs

 

IF YOU ARE WORRIED ABOUT SOMETHING THAT IS HAPPENING TO YOU OR ONE OF YOUR FRIENDS, YOU CAN SPEAK TO BARNARDO’S IN CONFIDENCE ON 0121 359 5333 OR CALL THE POLICE ON 101.

COULD THIS BE YOUR CHILD? CSE - KNOW THE WARNING SIGNS

Parents should be aware of and look out for signs of grooming and sexual exploitation in their children’s behaviour.

The short animation below highlights some of the key signs. For more information on knowing the warning signs visit our parent page.

DO YOU KNOW WHAT YOUR FRIEND’S DOING?

Sexual exploitation can happen to young people of all backgrounds and from all communities, male or female. As a young person, it’s important to know what signs to look out for to keep you and your friends safe from harm.

The information above should help you spot sexual exploitation and make it easier for you to see the signs in your friends.

 

You can also watch the short animations below and share them with your friends.